No One Is Watching

Does the fear of how others perceive your work hold you back from expressing yourself?

Take a moment to consider: Are you genuinely concerned about what someone else is doing right now? Do the thoughts and fears of others impact you significantly? Even if someone acts foolishly, will that memory linger for long?

I think we both know the answer: No. No. No.

In the same vein, others are just as absorbed in their own lives. They aren’t fixated on your actions. We often overestimate our significance, but the truth is, we are all just navigating our individual journeys.

So, lighten the load. Create freely. And if others choose to care about what you produce, they likely already appreciate you.

Overcoming Self-Doubt

I’ve been with ten partners in my life.

Is that too many? Too few? I don’t want to come off as overly promiscuous, but I also don’t want to sound prudish.

To some, my performance may have left much to be desired. Others might have thought I was decent. And then there are those who might remember me as unforgettable.

The critical takeaway here is that my approach remained consistent, while preferences varied. What one person loved, another might detest.

Understand that it’s impossible to satisfy everyone. Even with practice, you’ll never be everyone’s cup of tea. While you may improve and excel, only a select group will truly appreciate your work.

Remember this: Talent alone isn’t sufficient. Dedication is what truly counts.

Be Authentic

I must say it—it may be cliché, but it’s true: there is only one you.

There are countless stories waiting to be told, and they all share common themes. The reluctant hero, the relationship struggles, the inevitable fate. What sets your narrative apart is the essence of who you are.

Every piece you write carries a fragment of yourself. Your characters, their journeys, and their destinies will be unique because they are infused with your personal touch.

Make your audience connect with YOU. Encourage them to read YOUR work. Inspire them to choose YOUR stories.

Embrace Vulnerability

I enjoy robots in films and books, but I prefer the human touch in writing.

We are like onions, layered with experiences—both sweet and bitter.

Your stories will have a distinctive flavor that draws readers in and makes them crave more. So, don’t hesitate to peel back those layers. Reveal your true self. Share your triumphs, your failures, and your uncertainties.

We all share similar experiences, and your words will resonate deeply with others.

We’re all human—or, if you will, onions.

So, let loose and write as if no one is watching!

About the Author

Hi! I’m Adi, and I delve into the world of goal-setting—how to find the time, motivation, and means to achieve what you desire.

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